"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Diet advice

Matt Rogers

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I am aiming to gain some more weight (I am 6 foot and 180lbs, and want to get up to a solid 190lbs by the end of this year)
Unfortunately I cannot handle milk which I always used to use for gaining as it messed up my complexion. As I am a busy man I also do not have too much time for cooking and cannot afford to eat out often.

Can anyone recommend some good snacks and meals which are high in calories and protein?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Right now I'm eating sheppards pie and vege's. mmmmm.

Listen, it's more about the timing of your food than anything else. I could eat a huge cake and still not gain fat. I could do it everyday. Why? Cause I'd time it so that it's before a heavy workout/long distance run.
 

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A big factor in the reason for being able to eat "a big cake" as you say, is because you are only 18.... your metabolisim is alot faster then of those who are only 2 years older than you.

Time will tell DJB.. just remember.. hehe.. enjoy all those goodies now... coz, in years to come.. you will be able to enjoy less, and less.... it is our destiny lol
 

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Alright, not a huge cake, but if it's a home-made cake with just a fair amount of sugar - you'd burn off a hell of a lot of sugar during your rush, which means it wont get stored as fat. Whereas if you had that cake before bed, you'd store a lot more as fat.

and you know what? now you've mentioned that, I think I'll have my cheat day today... mmmmm.... a nice big plate of lamb madras, onion bahji's, naan bread.... MMM :D
 

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Originally posted by DJBen
Alright, not a huge cake, but if it's a home-made cake with just a fair amount of sugar - you'd burn off a hell of a lot of sugar during your rush, which means it wont get stored as fat. Whereas if you had that cake before bed, you'd store a lot more as fat.

and you know what? now you've mentioned that, I think I'll have my cheat day today... mmmmm.... a nice big plate of lamb madras, onion bahji's, naan bread.... MMM :D
mmmmmmm cheaaattt daysss!! love em hahaha
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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