“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Didn't close on the second date, did I screw things up

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We went out to Sushi, and I had just driven 50 miles today to help a friend move. I was exhausted and didn't feel like going through the first sex/hookup hurdles tonight. Am I screwed?
 

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If you played it cool and didn't blow yourself out, I'd ping her and see if she's still interested. Just explain the situation
 
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If you played it cool and didn't blow yourself out, I'd ping her and see if she's still interested. Just explain the situation
We talked about her dislike of taco bell and I teased her about our next date involving taco bell lol.
 

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We talked about her dislike of taco bell and I teased her about our next date involving taco bell lol.
Text her a taco pic and see how she responds. Or maybe a coupon link lol and say it's on you
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It depends:

If she was jumping in your lap or blatantly trying to get you to come over or something then yeah you probably screwed it all up.

If it would've required perfectly executed god tier game and escalation, that's another story. You're probably fine in that case.
 
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Why the fucck are you doing a restaurant meal date prior to sex?
 

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Why the fucck are you doing a restaurant meal date prior to sex?
So he could start a drunken and undetailed thread about it
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Lol I don’t have any details because it was just a standard sushi date. We met, I made her laugh a lot, got a connection, and I told her goodbye in the parking lot.

I then teased her about Taco Bell being our next date through text and got a laugh out of her(she hates Taco Bell).
 

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Definitely hit her up again and try to set up date 2.

Hopefully, you left her wanting more. The joke about date 2 was pretty good.

If a chick ends a date by saying "It was nice meeting you," then it's typically game over. If she doesn't say that, you're probably ok.
 

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Relax OP. Back in my single days I didnt even try to escalate on the first couple of dates. If shes interested, you are going to be fine.
 
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Definitely hit her up again and try to set up date 2.

Hopefully, you left her wanting more. The joke about date 2 was pretty good.

If a chick ends a date by saying "It was nice meeting you," then it's typically game over. If she doesn't say that, you're probably ok.
Set up a second date and see if she wants to see you again.
Y'all mean date 3 lol?
 
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It's not the details about what you discuss that's important

How was the eye contact, body language/movements, etc?
 
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