Didn't close on the second date, did I screw things up

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

We went out to Sushi, and I had just driven 50 miles today to help a friend move. I was exhausted and didn't feel like going through the first sex/hookup hurdles tonight. Am I screwed?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

If you played it cool and didn't blow yourself out, I'd ping her and see if she's still interested. Just explain the situation

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

If you played it cool and didn't blow yourself out, I'd ping her and see if she's still interested. Just explain the situation

We talked about her dislike of taco bell and I teased her about our next date involving taco bell lol.

 

[member160292]

....more context?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

We talked about her dislike of taco bell and I teased her about our next date involving taco bell lol.

Text her a taco pic and see how she responds. Or maybe a coupon link lol and say it's on you

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

....more context?

We went on a normal sushi date. Instead of trying to escalate the date back to my or her place I ended it there lol.

 

[member160292]

What happened on the date?

 

[devilkingx2]

It depends:

If she was jumping in your lap or blatantly trying to get you to come over or something then yeah you probably screwed it all up.

If it would've required perfectly executed god tier game and escalation, that's another story. You're probably fine in that case.

 

[SW15]

Why the fucck are you doing a restaurant meal date prior to sex?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Why the fucck are you doing a restaurant meal date prior to sex?

So he could start a drunken and undetailed thread about it

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Why the fucck are you doing a restaurant meal date prior to sex?

because I hate bar dates and I’m too old to be playing James Bond with a girl that I barely know lol

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Lol I don’t have any details because it was just a standard sushi date. We met, I made her laugh a lot, got a connection, and I told her goodbye in the parking lot.

I then teased her about Taco Bell being our next date through text and got a laugh out of her(she hates Taco Bell).

 

[corrector]

Set up a second date and see if she wants to see you again.

 

[Mike32ct]

Definitely hit her up again and try to set up date 2.

Hopefully, you left her wanting more. The joke about date 2 was pretty good.

If a chick ends a date by saying "It was nice meeting you," then it's typically game over. If she doesn't say that, you're probably ok.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Relax OP. Back in my single days I didnt even try to escalate on the first couple of dates. If shes interested, you are going to be fine.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Definitely hit her up again and try to set up date 2.

Hopefully, you left her wanting more. The joke about date 2 was pretty good.

If a chick ends a date by saying "It was nice meeting you," then it's typically game over. If she doesn't say that, you're probably ok.

Set up a second date and see if she wants to see you again.

Y'all mean date 3 lol?

 

[Mike32ct]

Y'all mean date 3 lol?

Sorry, just skimmed the thread lol.

 

[corrector]

Y'all mean date 3 lol?

Yeah, try a country road trip with her as a third date idea.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Yeah, try a country road trip with her as a third date idea.

I did just get a new truck lol

 

[member160292]

It's not the details about what you discuss that's important

How was the eye contact, body language/movements, etc?