"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did they disrespect me again

Stephen89

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I went on Facebook to say how I got treated by a cousin and how the price could arrest him.

I was told I have mental health issues was the issue, no one thinks he's done nothing wrong and it's true he has harassed, bullied, more me etc.

There is too much more I can give.

Saying mental health problems is that a sign of disrespect?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Modern Man Advice

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I'd love to get more context on this. What's the back story here? Try to be as objective as possible when telling both sides of the story.

And it would also help to share more about you. Mental health is important and should always be prioritized and never stigmatized. We all have mental health issues to an extent and we should all be addressing them so don't be offended. But sometimes and some people do have pretty significant mental health problems that go unaddressed and that's when bad things happen (eg. mass shootings). So we should always be addressing the core issue of these sad occurrences: Mental Health. And stop pretending like gun control is going to alleviate or worse solve the problem.

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Alvafe

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I would say we lack info, also don't waste time fighting on facebook
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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