"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did they disrespect me again

Stephen89

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I went on Facebook to say how I got treated by a cousin and how the price could arrest him.

I was told I have mental health issues was the issue, no one thinks he's done nothing wrong and it's true he has harassed, bullied, more me etc.

There is too much more I can give.

Saying mental health problems is that a sign of disrespect?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Modern Man Advice

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I'd love to get more context on this. What's the back story here? Try to be as objective as possible when telling both sides of the story.

And it would also help to share more about you. Mental health is important and should always be prioritized and never stigmatized. We all have mental health issues to an extent and we should all be addressing them so don't be offended. But sometimes and some people do have pretty significant mental health problems that go unaddressed and that's when bad things happen (eg. mass shootings). So we should always be addressing the core issue of these sad occurrences: Mental Health. And stop pretending like gun control is going to alleviate or worse solve the problem.

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I would say we lack info, also don't waste time fighting on facebook
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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