"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did she want me to phuck her?

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So Im in first period with this chick and were pretty tight friends. During class she made some comment about me looking at her chest or sumthing like that, and I said "Na its cool your not really my type". So me and this chick were hanging out at my buddies house later that day and hes their for all this. So Im sitting on the couch and she comes over and sits beside me. She starts flirting with me and then out of nowhere she says shes tired and that she wants to take a nap, it was 7:00pm lol, and she looks over at me and says "wouldnt you like to take a nap?". Am I just making something out of nothing or was there something there? See I never got to find out because it was a little while after her dad called and said he was picking her up soon. BTW shes a Virgin too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if what you said "na its cool your really not my type." is true, then why are you asking?

And yes, she wants to **** you
 
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That was a sh1t test. You should have said, well actually now that you say that i do feel kinda sleepy. Lie on the bed like you're actually taking a nap... lol priceless.
If she gets pissed or starts touching you then you know its on.

Afterwards you can tease her about ruining your nap.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ya i new she had to have that on her mind but its weird cuz i no im in the "friend zone" with this girl cuz ive never tried to get with her and shes too comfortable with me. Maybe the "your not my type" has sumthing to do with it. Possibly making her feel that she dosnt hav control of the situation and that im not interested. W/e im going to try this on another girl and see if i get something similar : )
 
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Proceed straight to the archives and enter your post into the thread marked..."Most Obvious Come On Missed."
 
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ValleyDJing said:
Proceed straight to the archives and enter your post into the thread marked..."Most Obvious Come On Missed."
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Good one!:up:
 
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If you are currently in the friends zone, and she's a virgin, that was her way of trying to get you to make a move, but I seriously doubted she wanted the c0ck right away.

She wanted to make out with you, at least. So yes, you were a dumba$s, so go back and give her what she wants.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I posted this thread becauz I really just wanted a 2nd opinion that yes she was coming on to me. i jus think its odd tho cuz im sure im in or was in the friend zone and from EVERY expiriance being in the zone theres no coming back. thinking back i shud hav told her that i wud give her a ride back home, w/e im chillin w/ her on tues, hopefully its still an option :)
 
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