"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did she want me to phuck her?

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So Im in first period with this chick and were pretty tight friends. During class she made some comment about me looking at her chest or sumthing like that, and I said "Na its cool your not really my type". So me and this chick were hanging out at my buddies house later that day and hes their for all this. So Im sitting on the couch and she comes over and sits beside me. She starts flirting with me and then out of nowhere she says shes tired and that she wants to take a nap, it was 7:00pm lol, and she looks over at me and says "wouldnt you like to take a nap?". Am I just making something out of nothing or was there something there? See I never got to find out because it was a little while after her dad called and said he was picking her up soon. BTW shes a Virgin too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if what you said "na its cool your really not my type." is true, then why are you asking?

And yes, she wants to **** you
 
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That was a sh1t test. You should have said, well actually now that you say that i do feel kinda sleepy. Lie on the bed like you're actually taking a nap... lol priceless.
If she gets pissed or starts touching you then you know its on.

Afterwards you can tease her about ruining your nap.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ya i new she had to have that on her mind but its weird cuz i no im in the "friend zone" with this girl cuz ive never tried to get with her and shes too comfortable with me. Maybe the "your not my type" has sumthing to do with it. Possibly making her feel that she dosnt hav control of the situation and that im not interested. W/e im going to try this on another girl and see if i get something similar : )
 
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Proceed straight to the archives and enter your post into the thread marked..."Most Obvious Come On Missed."
 
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ValleyDJing said:
Proceed straight to the archives and enter your post into the thread marked..."Most Obvious Come On Missed."
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Good one!:up:
 
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If you are currently in the friends zone, and she's a virgin, that was her way of trying to get you to make a move, but I seriously doubted she wanted the c0ck right away.

She wanted to make out with you, at least. So yes, you were a dumba$s, so go back and give her what she wants.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I posted this thread becauz I really just wanted a 2nd opinion that yes she was coming on to me. i jus think its odd tho cuz im sure im in or was in the friend zone and from EVERY expiriance being in the zone theres no coming back. thinking back i shud hav told her that i wud give her a ride back home, w/e im chillin w/ her on tues, hopefully its still an option :)
 
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