"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Did she want me to phuck her?

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So Im in first period with this chick and were pretty tight friends. During class she made some comment about me looking at her chest or sumthing like that, and I said "Na its cool your not really my type". So me and this chick were hanging out at my buddies house later that day and hes their for all this. So Im sitting on the couch and she comes over and sits beside me. She starts flirting with me and then out of nowhere she says shes tired and that she wants to take a nap, it was 7:00pm lol, and she looks over at me and says "wouldnt you like to take a nap?". Am I just making something out of nothing or was there something there? See I never got to find out because it was a little while after her dad called and said he was picking her up soon. BTW shes a Virgin too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if what you said "na its cool your really not my type." is true, then why are you asking?

And yes, she wants to **** you
 

Play the Game

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That was a sh1t test. You should have said, well actually now that you say that i do feel kinda sleepy. Lie on the bed like you're actually taking a nap... lol priceless.
If she gets pissed or starts touching you then you know its on.

Afterwards you can tease her about ruining your nap.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ya i new she had to have that on her mind but its weird cuz i no im in the "friend zone" with this girl cuz ive never tried to get with her and shes too comfortable with me. Maybe the "your not my type" has sumthing to do with it. Possibly making her feel that she dosnt hav control of the situation and that im not interested. W/e im going to try this on another girl and see if i get something similar : )
 

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Proceed straight to the archives and enter your post into the thread marked..."Most Obvious Come On Missed."
 

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ValleyDJing said:
Proceed straight to the archives and enter your post into the thread marked..."Most Obvious Come On Missed."
Good one!:up:
 

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If you are currently in the friends zone, and she's a virgin, that was her way of trying to get you to make a move, but I seriously doubted she wanted the c0ck right away.

She wanted to make out with you, at least. So yes, you were a dumba$s, so go back and give her what she wants.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I posted this thread becauz I really just wanted a 2nd opinion that yes she was coming on to me. i jus think its odd tho cuz im sure im in or was in the friend zone and from EVERY expiriance being in the zone theres no coming back. thinking back i shud hav told her that i wud give her a ride back home, w/e im chillin w/ her on tues, hopefully its still an option :)
 
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