"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Did not see my STR girlfriend this christmas

Colinski282

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Yes i understand she has family obligations and u know what, so do i. I wanted to exchange presents with her kiss her and tell her merry christmas and maybe if i played it right get a nice christmas ****. But no.

I give her the whole day to do what she needs to do, as i have obligations as well. So i call her around 8 and say it would mean alot if i could exchange gifts with you today, i kno u cant come here cuz ur on ur way home but ill go to your house for a min and say hi.

She says no, I have been with her almost 2 months never been to her house or met her mom, not that i want to, but its the fact i havent. Now it really gets me heated i couldnt come to her door and say hi give her gift and leave. Her excuse was he mean crazy father. :box:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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djbr

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I love my new signature, you know. It is almost universal. This time, I can say nothing about the issue and still respond to it.

Feels good :D
 

Colinski282

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Trying to tell me that i may be overreacting?
 

flexion_

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No rush in seeing her parents. Sounds like you want some sort of committment - yes?
 

LeviathanIYG

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Sounds like she doesn't take the relationship half as seriously as you do.

Work on raising her IL.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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heater528

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lol dont complain dude... if ur getting some, and shes there for u every now and then you have it made. everynight i have free my girlfriend wants to hang out its a pain in the ass!!! I of course say no to her most of the time simply to not become boring to her but its still a pain
 

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Your signature is really dope. But what do You mean ? less sex = no love ?
Yes it is dope. Anti-Dump rules :D

Dude, let me tell you something. In the past I was the one who tried everything to impress, to get what I thought I wanted from women. Well, it worked. But the price was too high. To work that much for one piece of ass seems alien to me now. Why bother? Most women are alike. Grab the one who seems to like you most and you're fine.

Another thing is that women who wants to **** will find a way. If she makes EXCUSES to not do it, you can bet your ass she doesn't want to in the first place. And as far as women are concerned, sex is what keeps a man. If she makes EXCUSES (again!) to not do it, well, she may think:

1) you will get over it and NOT dump her. BAD FOR YOU, GOOD FOR HER. now ask me why!
2) you will dump her. -- if she thinks you will dump her because of sex, and she doesn't want sex, she wants you to dump her! now ask me why!

Well, let's make it simple: get rid of her and find other who makes things easier for you, not harder. Life itself is hell sometimes. It doesn't have to be harder. Better off alone than with a bad women. Really better.
 
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