"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Did not see my STR girlfriend this christmas

Colinski282

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Yes i understand she has family obligations and u know what, so do i. I wanted to exchange presents with her kiss her and tell her merry christmas and maybe if i played it right get a nice christmas ****. But no.

I give her the whole day to do what she needs to do, as i have obligations as well. So i call her around 8 and say it would mean alot if i could exchange gifts with you today, i kno u cant come here cuz ur on ur way home but ill go to your house for a min and say hi.

She says no, I have been with her almost 2 months never been to her house or met her mom, not that i want to, but its the fact i havent. Now it really gets me heated i couldnt come to her door and say hi give her gift and leave. Her excuse was he mean crazy father. :box:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I love my new signature, you know. It is almost universal. This time, I can say nothing about the issue and still respond to it.

Feels good :D
 

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Trying to tell me that i may be overreacting?
 

flexion_

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No rush in seeing her parents. Sounds like you want some sort of committment - yes?
 

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Sounds like she doesn't take the relationship half as seriously as you do.

Work on raising her IL.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol dont complain dude... if ur getting some, and shes there for u every now and then you have it made. everynight i have free my girlfriend wants to hang out its a pain in the ass!!! I of course say no to her most of the time simply to not become boring to her but its still a pain
 

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Your signature is really dope. But what do You mean ? less sex = no love ?
Yes it is dope. Anti-Dump rules :D

Dude, let me tell you something. In the past I was the one who tried everything to impress, to get what I thought I wanted from women. Well, it worked. But the price was too high. To work that much for one piece of ass seems alien to me now. Why bother? Most women are alike. Grab the one who seems to like you most and you're fine.

Another thing is that women who wants to **** will find a way. If she makes EXCUSES to not do it, you can bet your ass she doesn't want to in the first place. And as far as women are concerned, sex is what keeps a man. If she makes EXCUSES (again!) to not do it, well, she may think:

1) you will get over it and NOT dump her. BAD FOR YOU, GOOD FOR HER. now ask me why!
2) you will dump her. -- if she thinks you will dump her because of sex, and she doesn't want sex, she wants you to dump her! now ask me why!

Well, let's make it simple: get rid of her and find other who makes things easier for you, not harder. Life itself is hell sometimes. It doesn't have to be harder. Better off alone than with a bad women. Really better.
 
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