"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did not see my STR girlfriend this christmas

Colinski282

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Yes i understand she has family obligations and u know what, so do i. I wanted to exchange presents with her kiss her and tell her merry christmas and maybe if i played it right get a nice christmas ****. But no.

I give her the whole day to do what she needs to do, as i have obligations as well. So i call her around 8 and say it would mean alot if i could exchange gifts with you today, i kno u cant come here cuz ur on ur way home but ill go to your house for a min and say hi.

She says no, I have been with her almost 2 months never been to her house or met her mom, not that i want to, but its the fact i havent. Now it really gets me heated i couldnt come to her door and say hi give her gift and leave. Her excuse was he mean crazy father. :box:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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djbr

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I love my new signature, you know. It is almost universal. This time, I can say nothing about the issue and still respond to it.

Feels good :D
 

Colinski282

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Trying to tell me that i may be overreacting?
 

flexion_

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No rush in seeing her parents. Sounds like you want some sort of committment - yes?
 

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Sounds like she doesn't take the relationship half as seriously as you do.

Work on raising her IL.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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heater528

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lol dont complain dude... if ur getting some, and shes there for u every now and then you have it made. everynight i have free my girlfriend wants to hang out its a pain in the ass!!! I of course say no to her most of the time simply to not become boring to her but its still a pain
 

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Your signature is really dope. But what do You mean ? less sex = no love ?
Yes it is dope. Anti-Dump rules :D

Dude, let me tell you something. In the past I was the one who tried everything to impress, to get what I thought I wanted from women. Well, it worked. But the price was too high. To work that much for one piece of ass seems alien to me now. Why bother? Most women are alike. Grab the one who seems to like you most and you're fine.

Another thing is that women who wants to **** will find a way. If she makes EXCUSES to not do it, you can bet your ass she doesn't want to in the first place. And as far as women are concerned, sex is what keeps a man. If she makes EXCUSES (again!) to not do it, well, she may think:

1) you will get over it and NOT dump her. BAD FOR YOU, GOOD FOR HER. now ask me why!
2) you will dump her. -- if she thinks you will dump her because of sex, and she doesn't want sex, she wants you to dump her! now ask me why!

Well, let's make it simple: get rid of her and find other who makes things easier for you, not harder. Life itself is hell sometimes. It doesn't have to be harder. Better off alone than with a bad women. Really better.
 
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