"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did not see my STR girlfriend this christmas

Colinski282

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Yes i understand she has family obligations and u know what, so do i. I wanted to exchange presents with her kiss her and tell her merry christmas and maybe if i played it right get a nice christmas ****. But no.

I give her the whole day to do what she needs to do, as i have obligations as well. So i call her around 8 and say it would mean alot if i could exchange gifts with you today, i kno u cant come here cuz ur on ur way home but ill go to your house for a min and say hi.

She says no, I have been with her almost 2 months never been to her house or met her mom, not that i want to, but its the fact i havent. Now it really gets me heated i couldnt come to her door and say hi give her gift and leave. Her excuse was he mean crazy father. :box:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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djbr

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I love my new signature, you know. It is almost universal. This time, I can say nothing about the issue and still respond to it.

Feels good :D
 

Colinski282

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Trying to tell me that i may be overreacting?
 

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No rush in seeing her parents. Sounds like you want some sort of committment - yes?
 

LeviathanIYG

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Sounds like she doesn't take the relationship half as seriously as you do.

Work on raising her IL.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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heater528

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lol dont complain dude... if ur getting some, and shes there for u every now and then you have it made. everynight i have free my girlfriend wants to hang out its a pain in the ass!!! I of course say no to her most of the time simply to not become boring to her but its still a pain
 

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Your signature is really dope. But what do You mean ? less sex = no love ?
Yes it is dope. Anti-Dump rules :D

Dude, let me tell you something. In the past I was the one who tried everything to impress, to get what I thought I wanted from women. Well, it worked. But the price was too high. To work that much for one piece of ass seems alien to me now. Why bother? Most women are alike. Grab the one who seems to like you most and you're fine.

Another thing is that women who wants to **** will find a way. If she makes EXCUSES to not do it, you can bet your ass she doesn't want to in the first place. And as far as women are concerned, sex is what keeps a man. If she makes EXCUSES (again!) to not do it, well, she may think:

1) you will get over it and NOT dump her. BAD FOR YOU, GOOD FOR HER. now ask me why!
2) you will dump her. -- if she thinks you will dump her because of sex, and she doesn't want sex, she wants you to dump her! now ask me why!

Well, let's make it simple: get rid of her and find other who makes things easier for you, not harder. Life itself is hell sometimes. It doesn't have to be harder. Better off alone than with a bad women. Really better.
 
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