Did my neg hit right

[Pathgen]

I was setting up a group assignment for school with my group mates and one of them is a HB8.7. So we are talking and i didn't realize that we have veteran's day tommorow, which is when we decided to meet up. So i throw a neg at her like this (because like me she didn't remember about veterans day either)

Path: So i guess anytime tomorrow is good (i look at her). Because you didn't know school was canceled so you probably didn't make any plans.

She looked like it hit her a little too hard, but she was smiling afterwards. Now that i read it on paper it looks a little harsh what do you guys think? I did say it with a smile

 

[daygameguy]

I was setting up a group assignment for school with my group mates and one of them is a HB8.7. So we are talking and i didn't realize that we have veteran's day tommorow, which is when we decided to meet up. So i throw a neg at her like this (because like me she didn't remember about veterans day either)

Path: So i guess anytime tomorrow is good (i look at her). Because you didn't know school was canceled so you probably didn't make any plans.

She looked like it hit her a little too hard, but she was smiling afterwards. Now that i read it on paper it looks a little harsh what do you guys think? I did say it with a smile

Nah.. she's gonna be fine.

 

[WalkingStick]

If she got offended by that, she's crazy.

from my experience, negs and things along those lines often seem worse in hindsight.

You did nothing over the line.

 

[Crazy Asian]

haha no it's all good.

i have a problem of sometimes insulting the girl.

 

[Pathgen]

i have a problem of sometimes insulting the girl.

I know its not gonna kill her lol i just thought maybe i went over the line with that one. Well thanks guys for the input

 

[Lexington]

You can say even very harsh things as long as you let them know you're joking. Sometimes, the harsher the neg hit, the more successful it is.

I have a thing going with this one chick. She fell over one day walking down hill and got a few cuts and bruises. When she told me about it I just laughed and made fun of her for it. Of course, all the while I let her know I was kidding. But it turned into a sort of running joke.