“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Did my neg hit right

Pathgen

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I was setting up a group assignment for school with my group mates and one of them is a HB8.7. So we are talking and i didn't realize that we have veteran's day tommorow, which is when we decided to meet up. So i throw a neg at her like this (because like me she didn't remember about veterans day either)

Path: So i guess anytime tomorrow is good (i look at her). Because you didn't know school was canceled so you probably didn't make any plans.

She looked like it hit her a little too hard, but she was smiling afterwards. Now that i read it on paper it looks a little harsh what do you guys think? I did say it with a smile
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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daygameguy

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Pathgen said:
I was setting up a group assignment for school with my group mates and one of them is a HB8.7. So we are talking and i didn't realize that we have veteran's day tommorow, which is when we decided to meet up. So i throw a neg at her like this (because like me she didn't remember about veterans day either)

Path: So i guess anytime tomorrow is good (i look at her). Because you didn't know school was canceled so you probably didn't make any plans.

She looked like it hit her a little too hard, but she was smiling afterwards. Now that i read it on paper it looks a little harsh what do you guys think? I did say it with a smile
Nah.. she's gonna be fine.:rolleyes:
 

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If she got offended by that, she's crazy.

from my experience, negs and things along those lines often seem worse in hindsight.

You did nothing over the line.
 

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haha no it's all good.

i have a problem of sometimes insulting the girl.
 

Pathgen

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i have a problem of sometimes insulting the girl.
I know its not gonna kill her lol i just thought maybe i went over the line with that one. Well thanks guys for the input
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You can say even very harsh things as long as you let them know you're joking. Sometimes, the harsher the neg hit, the more successful it is.

I have a thing going with this one chick. She fell over one day walking down hill and got a few cuts and bruises. When she told me about it I just laughed and made fun of her for it. Of course, all the while I let her know I was kidding. But it turned into a sort of running joke.
 
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