Did my dad temporariliy slip into another dimension?

[corrector]

My dad is claiming that a city inspector approached him on his driveway, and claimed there are trace amounts of urea formeldahyde coming from the home, and left with him a blue business card to contact him. Dad sounded very animated about this conversation and insists that we have to do these costly repairs to the home otherwise it might be condemned as unlivable.

The only thing is this...I have no proof or evidence this actually occurred. My dad can't produce this blue card and claims he remember giving it to me (ie of course I don't know what he is talking about). The city is having a construction taking place in the neighbourhood for realignment of sewers, and updating the old infrastructure. However, this is happening on the city part of the property, not within the owner limits.

Therefore, it has me asking these questions:
1) Is it possible to measure Urea Formeldahyde of a home from the outside of the house. From the street level. I've heard of indoor test kits, but nothing about outdoor. Nobody ever came inside of the home to measure indoor formeldahyde levels.
2) Why would this home be singled out..if this were true, they would have to be doing this with all of the homes on the block.
3) Dad has changed his story in one account saying a water intake valve has to be replaced (which would cost $ 600), now today he is saying the floor, walls, everything would have to be replaced (costing $ 200K / we would have to panic sell the home).

When I called the city, nobody could verify that such a conversation or encounter ever occurred but gave me another number to call (ie I'm assuming is the project manager).

I'm expecting from that call tomorrow that nobody is going to have a clue of what I'm talking about as it's an ouside project covering various blocks and it's unlikely that any single home is singled out or that testing for formeladyde is even relevant for updating water main or sewer issue on the street. This would confirm the hypothesis that there was a temporary slip into another dimension and such an encounter never occurred in this reality, but what dad experienced was real.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Pretty sure that the only person slipping in and out of this dimension and into others has been you, hoss. Barney The Dinosaur was correct... Everyone is special in some way

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

My dad is claiming that a city inspector approached him on his driveway, and claimed there are trace amounts of urea formeldahyde coming from the home, and left with him a blue business card to contact him. Dad sounded very animated about this conversation and insists that we have to do these costly repairs to the home otherwise it might be condemned as unlivable.

The only thing is this...I have no proof or evidence this actually occurred. My dad can't produce this blue card and claims he remember giving it to me (ie of course I don't know what he is talking about). The city is having a construction taking place in the neighbourhood for realignment of sewers, and updating the old infrastructure. However, this is happening on the city part of the property, not within the owner limits.

Therefore, it has me asking these questions:
1) Is it possible to measure Urea Formeldahyde of a home from the outside of the house. From the street level. I've heard of indoor test kits, but nothing about outdoor. Nobody ever came inside of the home to measure indoor formeldahyde levels.
2) Why would this home be singled out..if this were true, they would have to be doing this with all of the homes on the block.
3) Dad has changed his story in one account saying a water intake valve has to be replaced (which would cost $ 600), now today he is saying the floor, walls, everything would have to be replaced (costing $ 200K / we would have to panic sell the home).

When I called the city, nobody could verify that such a conversation or encounter ever occurred but gave me another number to call (ie I'm assuming is the project manager).

I'm expecting from that call tomorrow that nobody is going to have a clue of what I'm talking about as it's an ouside project covering various blocks and it's unlikely that any single home is singled out or that testing for formeladyde is even relevant for updating water main or sewer issue on the street. This would confirm the hypothesis that there was a temporary slip into another dimension and such an encounter never occurred in this reality, but what dad experienced was real.

Dude, you need to tighten up

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Just going to leave this here

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Is it possible to your Dad has some sort of hallucinatory event?

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Corrector,
I have encountered this pumped in Formadehyde insulation....It was used during the Eighties and gave off unhealthy gases,after 15 years or so this settles down but leaves the problem of external walls becoming damp inside...the Inspector was probably checking out the plumbing,for which it seems you have to pay for improved access...In passing he probably saw the insulation and gave a somewhat imaginative description of the horror it is to remove,just in conversation...Be advised,if it hasn't worried you up till now,forget it...The only reason to remove it is dampness.

 

[corrector]

I did get to the bottom of this. It turns out it was a scam call and they were trying to extort $ 1800 from my father in order to do an inspections report and threatened legal action if we did not comply. The city confirmed that this company is not affiliated with them, and no record exists for this home and that it is a scam that needs to be reported to the police. The police were contacted, however, as no money was exchanged, they referred this to the anti-fraud hotline for Canada. I just reported this online as a fraud. Case closed.

Therefore, no paranormal incident occurred, just a criminal fraud offense.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I did get to the bottom of this. It turns out it was a scam call and they were trying to extort $ 1800 from my father in order to do an inspections report and threatened legal action if we did not comply. The city confirmed that this company is not affiliated with them, and no record exists for this home and that it is a scam that needs to be reported to the police. The police were contacted, however, as no money was exchanged, they referred this to the anti-fraud hotline for Canada. I just reported this online as a fraud. Case closed.

Therefore, no paranormal incident occurred, just a criminal fraud offense.

Maybe the scammers came from another dimension and then slipped back before they could get caught?

 

[sevbucmash]

It sounds like you’re dealing with a complex and potentially stressful situation. Here are some thoughts on your questions and concerns:

1. Measurement of Urea Formaldehyde:
   • Urea formaldehyde is typically measured indoors due to its association with building materials (like insulation and some types of flooring) and off-gassing. It is unlikely that a city inspector could accurately assess levels from outside the home without entering it. While there may be some indicators that could be observed externally (like visible mold or damage), formaldehyde testing usually requires air sampling inside the home.
2. Why One Home?:
   • If there were indeed concerns about formaldehyde emissions, it would be unusual for only one home to be singled out without a broader inspection of the neighborhood. Typically, if a city or health department were concerned about a potential environmental hazard, they would conduct inspections or testing across multiple properties, especially in an area undergoing construction.
3. Inconsistent Stories:
   • The shift in your dad's narrative regarding the extent of repairs needed could indicate a few things. It might reflect confusion or anxiety about the situation, especially if he feels overwhelmed by the potential costs. Alternatively, it could suggest that he is misinterpreting information or exaggerating the severity of the issue.

Given these points, it seems prudent to approach the situation with caution:

• Verification: Calling the city and speaking with the project manager is a good step. If no record of an inspector’s visit exists, that could indicate the conversation didn’t happen as described.
• Documentation: If your dad insists on the repairs, it would be wise to get a second opinion from a qualified inspector or contractor who can assess the home for any legitimate concerns, especially regarding formaldehyde.
• Communication: Keep the lines of communication open with your dad. If he’s feeling anxious or fearful about the home’s condition, it might help to discuss his concerns and provide reassurance.
• Mental Health Considerations: If your dad’s behavior seems erratic or if he is experiencing significant anxiety, it might be worth considering whether he could benefit from speaking with a mental health professional. Sometimes, stress can manifest in ways that lead to misunderstandings or heightened fears.

Ultimately, it’s essential to approach the situation with a mix of skepticism and compassion, ensuring that any necessary actions are based on verified information rather than anxiety-driven assumptions.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You sure your Dad wasn't listenin' to some old Eazy-E??

Now it's easy for me to get my point across,
so listen up close,
if you don't you might get lost,
I'm not a role model or a Dr. Seuss,
Yo I'm a gangsta...
and I'm about to get stupid....

I guess it's time for the trauma...
With the E-A-Z-Y-E comma,
Now that's drama...

so pay attention...
by the way I must mention...
I'm coming off hard in the third dimension...

 

[corrector]

You sure your Dad wasn't listenin' to some old Eazy-E??

Now it's easy for me to get my point across,
so listen up close,
if you don't you might get lost,
I'm not a role model or a Dr. Seuss,
Yo I'm a gangsta...
and I'm about to get stupid....

I guess it's time for the trauma...
With the E-A-Z-Y-E comma,
Now that's drama...

so pay attention...
by the way I must mention...
I'm coming off hard in the third dimension...

It as the outset of psykosis and his story of decline. Perhaps this thread contains the last memory where I had one of the last experience of knowing my father before his decline and initially not recognizing this as a cannary in the coal mine of what would be a brutal continuation of that story. He is doing better now mentally but he doesn't have the same vitality like he did before taking the meds. That version of him may never come back.