He's too busy pushing AIG, Bear sterns and goldman stock right before another market crash.wait_out said:When does Kramer make his entrance in this thread
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
He's too busy pushing AIG, Bear sterns and goldman stock right before another market crash.wait_out said:When does Kramer make his entrance in this thread
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yah I love redheads. But trust me they come in all sorts of mentalities. I dated one who looked like a redheaded Angelina Jolie and had the total princess mentality to go with it. Another who was a Nicole Kidman type clone who was the sweetest girl ever. Me and redheads are like peanut butter and chocolate.squirrels said:Redheads are typically ugly/fat back in grade-school. Then sometime in their 20s, they just EXPLODE with sexy. It's awesome because they never bothered to develop that, "I'm hot so I can afford to be a b!tch" mentality all the cute girls developed...and now all of a sudden what they wanted so bad before (d!ck) is being thrown at them. That's why gingers are thought to be "freaks".
Don't worry about what your kids are gonna look like. Use a damned condom and enjoy yourself. LOL
i knew a few hot redheads in school ,( if i wasnt as much a AFC beta i could have had a chance)squirrels said:Redheads are typically ugly/fat back in grade-school. Then sometime in their 20s, they just EXPLODE with sexy.
Quoting what are the red flags for me. I'd be less worried about what she looked like before and more concerned about who she is now. The desire for more work, the issues with her past. Sounds like her self-esteem issues are not resolved.Warrior74 said:... had low self esteem. ... She's getting new tits in a few months.
Then she tells me she could have never gotten a guy like back home as everyone knows what she looked like before...
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.