"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Did I sleep with an ugly chic?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yah I love redheads. But trust me they come in all sorts of mentalities. I dated one who looked like a redheaded Angelina Jolie and had the total princess mentality to go with it. Another who was a Nicole Kidman type clone who was the sweetest girl ever. Me and redheads are like peanut butter and chocolate.squirrels said:Redheads are typically ugly/fat back in grade-school. Then sometime in their 20s, they just EXPLODE with sexy. It's awesome because they never bothered to develop that, "I'm hot so I can afford to be a b!tch" mentality all the cute girls developed...and now all of a sudden what they wanted so bad before (d!ck) is being thrown at them. That's why gingers are thought to be "freaks".
Don't worry about what your kids are gonna look like. Use a damned condom and enjoy yourself. LOL
To the haters. LOL. Jealousy is not a manly trait. I'd rather be shallow and sure than stuck with doubts about what I'm doing.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
i knew a few hot redheads in school ,( if i wasnt as much a AFC beta i could have had a chance)squirrels said:
PLastic surgery is like fasle advertising, and she totally devalued herself by telling you this!
why would she even think there is anything to gain from telling this? maybe she feels guilty for not being ugly anymore??
Quoting what are the red flags for me. I'd be less worried about what she looked like before and more concerned about who she is now. The desire for more work, the issues with her past. Sounds like her self-esteem issues are not resolved.Warrior74 said:
There is a good chance that she would be constantly looking for validation of her looks and I can only imagine (nightmare) how she would react to aging. This is a cougar in training.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
To answer your question,never took an ugly Woman to bed,but woke up with a few.....To be serious,when I was looking for a Babe a few years ago,I had a rail run with a Lady,of Italian extraction,I have known for years,I knew her as a good looking but slightly obese Woman,after divorce she lost a lot of weight,danced well,but I never took things further because I know that she will revert to type when she is settled....as for a few tucks and gussets,to reject a babe for that,seems a bit choosy,even irrational.