"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Did I sleep with an ugly chic?
- Thread starter Warrior74
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yah I love redheads. But trust me they come in all sorts of mentalities. I dated one who looked like a redheaded Angelina Jolie and had the total princess mentality to go with it. Another who was a Nicole Kidman type clone who was the sweetest girl ever. Me and redheads are like peanut butter and chocolate.squirrels said:Redheads are typically ugly/fat back in grade-school. Then sometime in their 20s, they just EXPLODE with sexy. It's awesome because they never bothered to develop that, "I'm hot so I can afford to be a b!tch" mentality all the cute girls developed...and now all of a sudden what they wanted so bad before (d!ck) is being thrown at them. That's why gingers are thought to be "freaks".
Don't worry about what your kids are gonna look like. Use a damned condom and enjoy yourself. LOL
To the haters. LOL. Jealousy is not a manly trait. I'd rather be shallow and sure than stuck with doubts about what I'm doing.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
i knew a few hot redheads in school ,( if i wasnt as much a AFC beta i could have had a chance)squirrels said:
PLastic surgery is like fasle advertising, and she totally devalued herself by telling you this!
why would she even think there is anything to gain from telling this? maybe she feels guilty for not being ugly anymore??
Quoting what are the red flags for me. I'd be less worried about what she looked like before and more concerned about who she is now. The desire for more work, the issues with her past. Sounds like her self-esteem issues are not resolved.Warrior74 said:
There is a good chance that she would be constantly looking for validation of her looks and I can only imagine (nightmare) how she would react to aging. This is a cougar in training.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
To answer your question,never took an ugly Woman to bed,but woke up with a few.....To be serious,when I was looking for a Babe a few years ago,I had a rail run with a Lady,of Italian extraction,I have known for years,I knew her as a good looking but slightly obese Woman,after divorce she lost a lot of weight,danced well,but I never took things further because I know that she will revert to type when she is settled....as for a few tucks and gussets,to reject a babe for that,seems a bit choosy,even irrational.