"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Did I sleep with an ugly chic?
- Thread starter Warrior74
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yah I love redheads. But trust me they come in all sorts of mentalities. I dated one who looked like a redheaded Angelina Jolie and had the total princess mentality to go with it. Another who was a Nicole Kidman type clone who was the sweetest girl ever. Me and redheads are like peanut butter and chocolate.squirrels said:Redheads are typically ugly/fat back in grade-school. Then sometime in their 20s, they just EXPLODE with sexy. It's awesome because they never bothered to develop that, "I'm hot so I can afford to be a b!tch" mentality all the cute girls developed...and now all of a sudden what they wanted so bad before (d!ck) is being thrown at them. That's why gingers are thought to be "freaks".
Don't worry about what your kids are gonna look like. Use a damned condom and enjoy yourself. LOL
To the haters. LOL. Jealousy is not a manly trait. I'd rather be shallow and sure than stuck with doubts about what I'm doing.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
i knew a few hot redheads in school ,( if i wasnt as much a AFC beta i could have had a chance)squirrels said:
PLastic surgery is like fasle advertising, and she totally devalued herself by telling you this!
why would she even think there is anything to gain from telling this? maybe she feels guilty for not being ugly anymore??
Quoting what are the red flags for me. I'd be less worried about what she looked like before and more concerned about who she is now. The desire for more work, the issues with her past. Sounds like her self-esteem issues are not resolved.Warrior74 said:
There is a good chance that she would be constantly looking for validation of her looks and I can only imagine (nightmare) how she would react to aging. This is a cougar in training.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
To answer your question,never took an ugly Woman to bed,but woke up with a few.....To be serious,when I was looking for a Babe a few years ago,I had a rail run with a Lady,of Italian extraction,I have known for years,I knew her as a good looking but slightly obese Woman,after divorce she lost a lot of weight,danced well,but I never took things further because I know that she will revert to type when she is settled....as for a few tucks and gussets,to reject a babe for that,seems a bit choosy,even irrational.