"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Did I screw up?

dante82

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In my math class I flirt wit this one girl and stuff. Then later on the girl next to me goes do you like so and so? I go "idunno i guess she is kinda hot" The girl next to me goes im telling her. This is the part i am not sure about. the girl calls her over so I just say "guess what emily?" she goes "what" then i figure i better tell her then the girl next to me anf look like a shy fool. I say "I think you are hot" then she goes "OK" in that wierd confused did-this-just-happen-look and smiles. then she goes to her seat. The girl next to me is saying to every girl in the class then that "I want to have sex with them" some laughed and smiled. Did i **** this up? ps we been flirtin for a couple days now
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LikRetsam

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End yourself.
 

bigboom

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no, i think you did the right thing. Welcome to the world of rejection. You made the first steps...don't get upset with it, move on. It takes a lot of rejection to become a DJ :)

(and what i think of classes and stuff. be carefull if you cannot uphold your status...cause you'll see them everyday. Try to look elsewhere as well so you can be natural confident anytime even when you **** up in the future)
 

Patrick124

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I won't even read the post.
Don't ask "Did I screw up?" Because if you're asking this, chances are you did.
Next time, dont' bother asking. Be confident, and plan out your moves more.
Next her if you feel you fawked up.
From this day forward, you shouldn't feel you ****ed up again, you are a DJ. prove it to yourself. Be confident withe every move you make.
-sudden burst of lets-sound-smart-by-being-vague mood. hope it was atleast alittle helpful or enlightening.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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xomel

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Rejection is like lifting weights... It hurts, but its good for you, it makes you stronger.
 
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