"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Did I screw up on this approach?

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Ok so theres this girl in one of my summer classes. One day about a week ago I brought some dougnuts (really for her) and offered her one. She took it. Then I was like "hey you want to meet up somewhere for lunch" she said no shes busy. Well today was the last day of class so I gave her a peice of paper with my phone number, and email address. What are the chances shell call?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what you did woulda worked when you were 11-13 years old

how many different girls are u approaching? I hope you arent focused on just this ONE
 
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If she is a large, dougnut devouring beasty then yeah... she might call you for another doughnut.

But seriously, I think the chances are slim unless your the alpha-male of the class and have shown some sort of personality withought using props.

Also, instead of asking a question that can be easily shot down with a big "NO", ask something along the lines of "Hey, why dont you meet up with me for lunch?" This eliminates the "NO" answer and even if she shoots it down she will most likely only give you an explanation for why she cant. It also shows confidence because your not asking her for permission to take her out, your giving her an invitation. Which a lot of guys dont do.

Hope this helps Silenthill
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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silenthill said:
Ok so theres this girl in one of my summer classes. One day about a week ago I brought some dougnuts (really for her) and offered her one. She took it. Then I was like "hey you want to meet up somewhere for lunch" she said no shes busy. Well today was the last day of class so I gave her a peice of paper with my phone number, and email address. What are the chances shell call?
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Is this the extent of your verbal interactions with this girl? If it isn't, give more information.

If it is then I see you have made over 100 comments. Not to sound like a smart aZZ, but just wondering if you have you even read the Bible yet? If you have maybe you should reread it. I see three mistakes here. Supplicating, open ended date request, giving your number and not getting hers.
 
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