"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok so theres this girl in one of my summer classes. One day about a week ago I brought some dougnuts (really for her) and offered her one. She took it. Then I was like "hey you want to meet up somewhere for lunch" she said no shes busy. Well today was the last day of class so I gave her a peice of paper with my phone number, and email address. What are the chances shell call?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what you did woulda worked when you were 11-13 years old

how many different girls are u approaching? I hope you arent focused on just this ONE
 
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If she is a large, dougnut devouring beasty then yeah... she might call you for another doughnut.

But seriously, I think the chances are slim unless your the alpha-male of the class and have shown some sort of personality withought using props.

Also, instead of asking a question that can be easily shot down with a big "NO", ask something along the lines of "Hey, why dont you meet up with me for lunch?" This eliminates the "NO" answer and even if she shoots it down she will most likely only give you an explanation for why she cant. It also shows confidence because your not asking her for permission to take her out, your giving her an invitation. Which a lot of guys dont do.

Hope this helps Silenthill
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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silenthill said:
Ok so theres this girl in one of my summer classes. One day about a week ago I brought some dougnuts (really for her) and offered her one. She took it. Then I was like "hey you want to meet up somewhere for lunch" she said no shes busy. Well today was the last day of class so I gave her a peice of paper with my phone number, and email address. What are the chances shell call?
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Is this the extent of your verbal interactions with this girl? If it isn't, give more information.

If it is then I see you have made over 100 comments. Not to sound like a smart aZZ, but just wondering if you have you even read the Bible yet? If you have maybe you should reread it. I see three mistakes here. Supplicating, open ended date request, giving your number and not getting hers.
 
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