"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Did I run into a fellow SS-er?

Magma

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I was sitting at the poker table tonight and this younger guy (maybe mid twenties) sits at the table. He's quite intoxicated, and is in town on business for the week (from WA state I believe).

Amy, one of the dealers, was playing in the game and sitting next to him. She's a 5. I immediately recognized that this guy was trying to game her. He negged her about her ponytail, asked if she had a boyfriend, wanted to know if she would grab a bite with him later, etc. He was spitting all sorts of obvious canned lines.

Then, he started to ask the guy next to me, Mitch, if he wanted to be his "wingman" for the night. Mitch declined. Soon after, one of the dealers asked the guy his name, and he replied "Don Juan." He kept repeating that: "Call me Don. Don Juan. Don Juan. Don Juan." STFU already dude.

I would hope to God that this guy was not a SS-er, because his game was so atrocious. But the negging (on a FIVE!!!) and the repeated references to Don Juan was a bit too suspicious.

Come forward, whoever you are, and identify yourself! *shakes fist in the air*
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bible_Belt

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It goes both ways. Sometimes you see guys doing it well.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143490&page=3

Bible_Belt said:
I was impressed by the fights. I saw them at Joe's in downtown Chicago at lookyoung's recommendation. I think a guy who sat next to me was a student of seduction material. He looked like Style with his shaven head. He established social proof by talking to my gf and I. Then he opened two girls at the table next to him. He got them sitting with him within a few minutes. Then the three of them left together. He went through those motions like he was working a checklist in his head. Well done, man, whoever you are.
 

SinJester

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Funny story. I doubt whoever that was would own up :p

I mean negging a 5 is bad enough but calling himself Don Juan is just lame and giving us a bad name!

I always worry that people I know will find my identity on here. Although I guess if they found it they probably would have to be a member and likely would not want to be exposed either. I am curious if people I know have looked into this kind of stuff. I mean how easy is it for some to goodle 'how to attract women' into google these days!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wutang OR Skiptomylou and all his 'glory'.
 
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