"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Did I run into a fellow SS-er?

Magma

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I was sitting at the poker table tonight and this younger guy (maybe mid twenties) sits at the table. He's quite intoxicated, and is in town on business for the week (from WA state I believe).

Amy, one of the dealers, was playing in the game and sitting next to him. She's a 5. I immediately recognized that this guy was trying to game her. He negged her about her ponytail, asked if she had a boyfriend, wanted to know if she would grab a bite with him later, etc. He was spitting all sorts of obvious canned lines.

Then, he started to ask the guy next to me, Mitch, if he wanted to be his "wingman" for the night. Mitch declined. Soon after, one of the dealers asked the guy his name, and he replied "Don Juan." He kept repeating that: "Call me Don. Don Juan. Don Juan. Don Juan." STFU already dude.

I would hope to God that this guy was not a SS-er, because his game was so atrocious. But the negging (on a FIVE!!!) and the repeated references to Don Juan was a bit too suspicious.

Come forward, whoever you are, and identify yourself! *shakes fist in the air*
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It goes both ways. Sometimes you see guys doing it well.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143490&page=3

Bible_Belt said:
I was impressed by the fights. I saw them at Joe's in downtown Chicago at lookyoung's recommendation. I think a guy who sat next to me was a student of seduction material. He looked like Style with his shaven head. He established social proof by talking to my gf and I. Then he opened two girls at the table next to him. He got them sitting with him within a few minutes. Then the three of them left together. He went through those motions like he was working a checklist in his head. Well done, man, whoever you are.
 

SinJester

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Funny story. I doubt whoever that was would own up :p

I mean negging a 5 is bad enough but calling himself Don Juan is just lame and giving us a bad name!

I always worry that people I know will find my identity on here. Although I guess if they found it they probably would have to be a member and likely would not want to be exposed either. I am curious if people I know have looked into this kind of stuff. I mean how easy is it for some to goodle 'how to attract women' into google these days!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rebound Material

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Wutang OR Skiptomylou and all his 'glory'.
 
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