"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Did I run into a fellow SS-er?

Magma

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I was sitting at the poker table tonight and this younger guy (maybe mid twenties) sits at the table. He's quite intoxicated, and is in town on business for the week (from WA state I believe).

Amy, one of the dealers, was playing in the game and sitting next to him. She's a 5. I immediately recognized that this guy was trying to game her. He negged her about her ponytail, asked if she had a boyfriend, wanted to know if she would grab a bite with him later, etc. He was spitting all sorts of obvious canned lines.

Then, he started to ask the guy next to me, Mitch, if he wanted to be his "wingman" for the night. Mitch declined. Soon after, one of the dealers asked the guy his name, and he replied "Don Juan." He kept repeating that: "Call me Don. Don Juan. Don Juan. Don Juan." STFU already dude.

I would hope to God that this guy was not a SS-er, because his game was so atrocious. But the negging (on a FIVE!!!) and the repeated references to Don Juan was a bit too suspicious.

Come forward, whoever you are, and identify yourself! *shakes fist in the air*
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bible_Belt

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It goes both ways. Sometimes you see guys doing it well.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143490&page=3

Bible_Belt said:
I was impressed by the fights. I saw them at Joe's in downtown Chicago at lookyoung's recommendation. I think a guy who sat next to me was a student of seduction material. He looked like Style with his shaven head. He established social proof by talking to my gf and I. Then he opened two girls at the table next to him. He got them sitting with him within a few minutes. Then the three of them left together. He went through those motions like he was working a checklist in his head. Well done, man, whoever you are.
 

SinJester

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Funny story. I doubt whoever that was would own up :p

I mean negging a 5 is bad enough but calling himself Don Juan is just lame and giving us a bad name!

I always worry that people I know will find my identity on here. Although I guess if they found it they probably would have to be a member and likely would not want to be exposed either. I am curious if people I know have looked into this kind of stuff. I mean how easy is it for some to goodle 'how to attract women' into google these days!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Rebound Material

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Wutang OR Skiptomylou and all his 'glory'.
 
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