"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did I pass this sh** test?

Fausto

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I'll spare you the background other than this girl I've been seeing on and off for about two months, in which we've slept together two times, but who's been "busy" for the past 3 weeks or so when I ask if she wants to get together which has been only once or twice a week each week (She has some drama which I'll spare as well). I've never asked her if she's seeing other guys and she's hinted indirectly to me whether I've been seeing other girls, but I've never "admitted" anything or denied it for that matter.

I told her in a "nice" way a few days ago that I think I'm wasting my time because she has no time for me anymore, basically stating I'm not afraid to walk away if you're not up to my standards.

Texts me after not hearing from her after about 2 days at 1 in the morn (paraphrased):

Her- Sex is like pizza

Me- Dine in or delivery?

Her- Every kind

Me-I dont know I had (local pizza joint) tonight and it was better than the generic stuff from the freezer which I can't even eat anymore ;-)

Me- Do you think bad sex and great pizza makes the sex better just by having them together?

Her- Sex is sex the same as pizza is pizza. Could be cold not your favorite but its still pizza

Me- I disagree, bad pizza will just have you longing for the really good stuff youve tasted before and wont be quite the same

Her- Not me Im selective with pizza, I wont eat old pizza

Her (1 min later)- I am heading to sleep

Me- Good night ;-)


So, maybe I'm just reading into this too much, I'm thinking she was fishing for a reaction implying that she had sex tonight. I basically threw a bunch of curve balls at her, keeping the innuendo in place of course while infusing some nonsensical stuff, both knowing what we're really talking about (it's not pizza!). I wasn't playing her game, and I think she quickly realized she wasn't having the desired effect on me so gave up.

Yeah looks are relative, but she's an 8, and we all know hot girls can choose to have sex any time they want, so that doesn't phase me.

If I haven't already lost her, than I'm hoping this will raise her interest level again (or might not being that she can't manipulate me, unless she sees me as a challenge again).

Either way I'm already spinning two other plates.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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K.Pez

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tell her you only want the pizza that won't mind having sausage on it :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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romangod

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I think she left that conversation with a deep craving and desire........






............ for pizza.



Cheers!
 
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