"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did I pass this sh** test?

Fausto

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I'll spare you the background other than this girl I've been seeing on and off for about two months, in which we've slept together two times, but who's been "busy" for the past 3 weeks or so when I ask if she wants to get together which has been only once or twice a week each week (She has some drama which I'll spare as well). I've never asked her if she's seeing other guys and she's hinted indirectly to me whether I've been seeing other girls, but I've never "admitted" anything or denied it for that matter.

I told her in a "nice" way a few days ago that I think I'm wasting my time because she has no time for me anymore, basically stating I'm not afraid to walk away if you're not up to my standards.

Texts me after not hearing from her after about 2 days at 1 in the morn (paraphrased):

Her- Sex is like pizza

Me- Dine in or delivery?

Her- Every kind

Me-I dont know I had (local pizza joint) tonight and it was better than the generic stuff from the freezer which I can't even eat anymore ;-)

Me- Do you think bad sex and great pizza makes the sex better just by having them together?

Her- Sex is sex the same as pizza is pizza. Could be cold not your favorite but its still pizza

Me- I disagree, bad pizza will just have you longing for the really good stuff youve tasted before and wont be quite the same

Her- Not me Im selective with pizza, I wont eat old pizza

Her (1 min later)- I am heading to sleep

Me- Good night ;-)


So, maybe I'm just reading into this too much, I'm thinking she was fishing for a reaction implying that she had sex tonight. I basically threw a bunch of curve balls at her, keeping the innuendo in place of course while infusing some nonsensical stuff, both knowing what we're really talking about (it's not pizza!). I wasn't playing her game, and I think she quickly realized she wasn't having the desired effect on me so gave up.

Yeah looks are relative, but she's an 8, and we all know hot girls can choose to have sex any time they want, so that doesn't phase me.

If I haven't already lost her, than I'm hoping this will raise her interest level again (or might not being that she can't manipulate me, unless she sees me as a challenge again).

Either way I'm already spinning two other plates.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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K.Pez

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tell her you only want the pizza that won't mind having sausage on it :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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romangod

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I think she left that conversation with a deep craving and desire........






............ for pizza.



Cheers!
 
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