"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did I just self-invite myself or does she really want me to come ?

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Agree, and she did mention on Tuesday that she wouldn’t be able to hang out just the two of us until her cousin left since she didn’t want to ditch him. Which I totally understand.
ay it is what it is, its still early. for me, im spoiled by women who are naturally really into me and things go super fast. the sad reality of that passionate based lustful **** is it also burns out quickly if mistakes are made. Take things easy.. keep yourself busy. Every man should have women and relationships maybe 5th or furhter down on the list of their priorities. This just means u got other sht going on.. as you should.. HAving an abundance of friends and things to do in life makes it easier to deal with women because ur not so focused on them, thus the scales of desire shifts more heavy on their side.. it should always be heavier on their side.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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