"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Did I just self-invite myself or does she really want me to come ?

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Agree, and she did mention on Tuesday that she wouldn’t be able to hang out just the two of us until her cousin left since she didn’t want to ditch him. Which I totally understand.
ay it is what it is, its still early. for me, im spoiled by women who are naturally really into me and things go super fast. the sad reality of that passionate based lustful **** is it also burns out quickly if mistakes are made. Take things easy.. keep yourself busy. Every man should have women and relationships maybe 5th or furhter down on the list of their priorities. This just means u got other sht going on.. as you should.. HAving an abundance of friends and things to do in life makes it easier to deal with women because ur not so focused on them, thus the scales of desire shifts more heavy on their side.. it should always be heavier on their side.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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