"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Did I just make a bad move? Help me out!

MayHeM ThEoRy

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So I've been talking to this girl on myspace. I do know her in real life but I don't see her often enough to talk to her. Also, I can't ask her out at the moment as I am leaving the country in a week and won't come back for 2 months. Sooooo umm here goes. This is what I said to her

Guess that means you like little boys then, I always knew something was strange about you. Why do you only talk to me on myspace anyway? LAME.


Her response was:


i talk to you at school every day and if you want to talk to me outside of school you could i'm not stoping you dork



She sees me at school and says maybe a few words because we only meet for a few seconds. Did I make a bad move?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ARrocket

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umm....no

Say something like, "ok, we'll see....keep hoping ;) "

Then take her out on a date before you leave.
 

MayHeM ThEoRy

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I don't know I just think it made me sound desperate or something.

And I can't take her on a date before I leave, I leave like next week. :\
 

ARrocket

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So what if you leave next week? Call her tomorrow and ask her what she's doing. If she's not busy, take her somewhere right then. If she is busy, make plans for Tuesday or something.
 

chubbycheeks720

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"i talk to you at school every day and if you want to talk to me outside of school you could i'm not stoping you dork"

she wants you to talk to her, date ASAP
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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