"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did I just make a bad move? Help me out!

MayHeM ThEoRy

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So I've been talking to this girl on myspace. I do know her in real life but I don't see her often enough to talk to her. Also, I can't ask her out at the moment as I am leaving the country in a week and won't come back for 2 months. Sooooo umm here goes. This is what I said to her

Guess that means you like little boys then, I always knew something was strange about you. Why do you only talk to me on myspace anyway? LAME.


Her response was:


i talk to you at school every day and if you want to talk to me outside of school you could i'm not stoping you dork



She sees me at school and says maybe a few words because we only meet for a few seconds. Did I make a bad move?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ARrocket

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umm....no

Say something like, "ok, we'll see....keep hoping ;) "

Then take her out on a date before you leave.
 

MayHeM ThEoRy

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I don't know I just think it made me sound desperate or something.

And I can't take her on a date before I leave, I leave like next week. :\
 

ARrocket

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So what if you leave next week? Call her tomorrow and ask her what she's doing. If she's not busy, take her somewhere right then. If she is busy, make plans for Tuesday or something.
 

chubbycheeks720

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"i talk to you at school every day and if you want to talk to me outside of school you could i'm not stoping you dork"

she wants you to talk to her, date ASAP
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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