"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Did I just make a bad move? Help me out!

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MayHeM ThEoRy

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So I've been talking to this girl on myspace. I do know her in real life but I don't see her often enough to talk to her. Also, I can't ask her out at the moment as I am leaving the country in a week and won't come back for 2 months. Sooooo umm here goes. This is what I said to her

Guess that means you like little boys then, I always knew something was strange about you. Why do you only talk to me on myspace anyway? LAME.


Her response was:


i talk to you at school every day and if you want to talk to me outside of school you could i'm not stoping you dork



She sees me at school and says maybe a few words because we only meet for a few seconds. Did I make a bad move?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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umm....no

Say something like, "ok, we'll see....keep hoping ;) "

Then take her out on a date before you leave.
 
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MayHeM ThEoRy

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I don't know I just think it made me sound desperate or something.

And I can't take her on a date before I leave, I leave like next week. :\
 
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So what if you leave next week? Call her tomorrow and ask her what she's doing. If she's not busy, take her somewhere right then. If she is busy, make plans for Tuesday or something.
 
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"i talk to you at school every day and if you want to talk to me outside of school you could i'm not stoping you dork"

she wants you to talk to her, date ASAP
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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