"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Did I just go MGTOW or something?

old married dude

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Alright, well I did have two FWB's as of earlier this week, but over the past few weeks I've felt they stressed me out more than anything. They both became gradually more demanding of my time and it reached the point to where I was pretty damn exhausted & actually oversexed. It became very unsatisfying for these reasons. I got both of them to dump me and since Monday neither has contacted me and it feels very, very liberating. I feel pretty free again and I'm able to devote more free time to myself. Both of them had me tired all the time to the point where I was slacking a bit in the gym & now I'm getting back into my fitness routine. Don't get me wrong the sex was very good with both, but maybe it was a case of too much of a good thing?

I wonder if I'm MGTOW now or what? I'm not anti-female and angry toward women like some of those guys, but I really just want some time on my own for quite a while into the foreseeable future. I'm not going back to Tinder, not looking to pick up any plates, and will just sorta mind my own business when I'm out & about. Has this ever happened to any of you where you felt like you just needed a long vacation from running game/women?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Skyline

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Yeah, I feel you on that. Most of 2014 was me just running game on everyone and learning more about myself. Once the beginning of 2015 started I had decided I would look for my drive in life and kind of took a break from women.

I was at the mall the other day and it reminded me of approaching so I was thinking about getting back into it. I had some good times I can't lie. I need to still learn proper balance anyways.

I think too much of anything is bad for you, I don't think you or me are going our own ways, just kind of taking a break from having too much so to speak.
 

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MGTOW doesn't mean not f*cking women. It means doing what YOU want to do, when YOU want to do it and how YOU want to do it.
 

old married dude

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El Payaso said:
MGTOW doesn't mean not f*cking women. It means doing what YOU want to do, when YOU want to do it and how YOU want to do it.
Gotcha, been doing that since I got divorced!

I guess it's just a small sub group of them that swear off women altogether, not everyone.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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