"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did I just go MGTOW or something?

old married dude

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Alright, well I did have two FWB's as of earlier this week, but over the past few weeks I've felt they stressed me out more than anything. They both became gradually more demanding of my time and it reached the point to where I was pretty damn exhausted & actually oversexed. It became very unsatisfying for these reasons. I got both of them to dump me and since Monday neither has contacted me and it feels very, very liberating. I feel pretty free again and I'm able to devote more free time to myself. Both of them had me tired all the time to the point where I was slacking a bit in the gym & now I'm getting back into my fitness routine. Don't get me wrong the sex was very good with both, but maybe it was a case of too much of a good thing?

I wonder if I'm MGTOW now or what? I'm not anti-female and angry toward women like some of those guys, but I really just want some time on my own for quite a while into the foreseeable future. I'm not going back to Tinder, not looking to pick up any plates, and will just sorta mind my own business when I'm out & about. Has this ever happened to any of you where you felt like you just needed a long vacation from running game/women?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah, I feel you on that. Most of 2014 was me just running game on everyone and learning more about myself. Once the beginning of 2015 started I had decided I would look for my drive in life and kind of took a break from women.

I was at the mall the other day and it reminded me of approaching so I was thinking about getting back into it. I had some good times I can't lie. I need to still learn proper balance anyways.

I think too much of anything is bad for you, I don't think you or me are going our own ways, just kind of taking a break from having too much so to speak.
 

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MGTOW doesn't mean not f*cking women. It means doing what YOU want to do, when YOU want to do it and how YOU want to do it.
 

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El Payaso said:
MGTOW doesn't mean not f*cking women. It means doing what YOU want to do, when YOU want to do it and how YOU want to do it.
Gotcha, been doing that since I got divorced!

I guess it's just a small sub group of them that swear off women altogether, not everyone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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