“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Did I just go MGTOW or something?

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Alright, well I did have two FWB's as of earlier this week, but over the past few weeks I've felt they stressed me out more than anything. They both became gradually more demanding of my time and it reached the point to where I was pretty damn exhausted & actually oversexed. It became very unsatisfying for these reasons. I got both of them to dump me and since Monday neither has contacted me and it feels very, very liberating. I feel pretty free again and I'm able to devote more free time to myself. Both of them had me tired all the time to the point where I was slacking a bit in the gym & now I'm getting back into my fitness routine. Don't get me wrong the sex was very good with both, but maybe it was a case of too much of a good thing?

I wonder if I'm MGTOW now or what? I'm not anti-female and angry toward women like some of those guys, but I really just want some time on my own for quite a while into the foreseeable future. I'm not going back to Tinder, not looking to pick up any plates, and will just sorta mind my own business when I'm out & about. Has this ever happened to any of you where you felt like you just needed a long vacation from running game/women?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah, I feel you on that. Most of 2014 was me just running game on everyone and learning more about myself. Once the beginning of 2015 started I had decided I would look for my drive in life and kind of took a break from women.

I was at the mall the other day and it reminded me of approaching so I was thinking about getting back into it. I had some good times I can't lie. I need to still learn proper balance anyways.

I think too much of anything is bad for you, I don't think you or me are going our own ways, just kind of taking a break from having too much so to speak.
 

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MGTOW doesn't mean not f*cking women. It means doing what YOU want to do, when YOU want to do it and how YOU want to do it.
 

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El Payaso said:
MGTOW doesn't mean not f*cking women. It means doing what YOU want to do, when YOU want to do it and how YOU want to do it.
Gotcha, been doing that since I got divorced!

I guess it's just a small sub group of them that swear off women altogether, not everyone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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