Known this gal for 9 months but not going out with her but been texting this gal for a few weeks and she said she likes me and wants to fark me. Then she saw me with a few other gals then got jealous then said she wants to take timeout for a few days before contacting me again because she is falling in love with me. It's been a week and still no contact from her. I haven't contacted her either. Technically it's not getting dumped because I'm not going out with her but I don't want to lose a FWB. Should I contact or wait for her to contact me?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Did I just get dumped?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
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this mean she start losing interest in you , but women just reverse it to not look rude
start looking for another woman , because she lost her interest in you .
and if she return back dont expect because she love u , she just couldnt find a better deal and will dump you again when that one comes
She is not my girlfriend, I think she has a boyfriend but that don't bother me. Does the rule of no contact still apply? I think she is acting like this she doesn't want to break up with her boyfriend and saw me as a fark buddy but now she is getting emotionally involved with me ans is now withdrawing since she always just saw our relationship as physical.Charm2K said:
So is by saying what she said does she want no contact with me ever again because she is scared that if she farks me she will fall in love with me and she don't want to break up with her boyfriend.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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if a woman really feel jealous or that her guy will be taken by other woman , they become more clingy and showing more interest .
but in your case it is the opposite , usually women when not interested just try to find a reason to blame a man for breakup so that they cant not be the "bad one" who was the reason of breakup
if it wasnt that the reason she would find another reason to blame you for the breakup
if you really think that thing will hurt her or made her jealous then try now to call her and go out with her and let see the results
judge women by their actions not by their words
women can say any thing unlike men men their words are their honor