Known this gal for 9 months but not going out with her but been texting this gal for a few weeks and she said she likes me and wants to fark me. Then she saw me with a few other gals then got jealous then said she wants to take timeout for a few days before contacting me again because she is falling in love with me. It's been a week and still no contact from her. I haven't contacted her either. Technically it's not getting dumped because I'm not going out with her but I don't want to lose a FWB. Should I contact or wait for her to contact me?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Did I just get dumped?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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this mean she start losing interest in you , but women just reverse it to not look rude
start looking for another woman , because she lost her interest in you .
and if she return back dont expect because she love u , she just couldnt find a better deal and will dump you again when that one comes
She is not my girlfriend, I think she has a boyfriend but that don't bother me. Does the rule of no contact still apply? I think she is acting like this she doesn't want to break up with her boyfriend and saw me as a fark buddy but now she is getting emotionally involved with me ans is now withdrawing since she always just saw our relationship as physical.Charm2K said:
So is by saying what she said does she want no contact with me ever again because she is scared that if she farks me she will fall in love with me and she don't want to break up with her boyfriend.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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if a woman really feel jealous or that her guy will be taken by other woman , they become more clingy and showing more interest .
but in your case it is the opposite , usually women when not interested just try to find a reason to blame a man for breakup so that they cant not be the "bad one" who was the reason of breakup
if it wasnt that the reason she would find another reason to blame you for the breakup
if you really think that thing will hurt her or made her jealous then try now to call her and go out with her and let see the results
judge women by their actions not by their words
women can say any thing unlike men men their words are their honor