Known this gal for 9 months but not going out with her but been texting this gal for a few weeks and she said she likes me and wants to fark me. Then she saw me with a few other gals then got jealous then said she wants to take timeout for a few days before contacting me again because she is falling in love with me. It's been a week and still no contact from her. I haven't contacted her either. Technically it's not getting dumped because I'm not going out with her but I don't want to lose a FWB. Should I contact or wait for her to contact me?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Did I just get dumped?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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this mean she start losing interest in you , but women just reverse it to not look rude
start looking for another woman , because she lost her interest in you .
and if she return back dont expect because she love u , she just couldnt find a better deal and will dump you again when that one comes
She is not my girlfriend, I think she has a boyfriend but that don't bother me. Does the rule of no contact still apply? I think she is acting like this she doesn't want to break up with her boyfriend and saw me as a fark buddy but now she is getting emotionally involved with me ans is now withdrawing since she always just saw our relationship as physical.Charm2K said:
So is by saying what she said does she want no contact with me ever again because she is scared that if she farks me she will fall in love with me and she don't want to break up with her boyfriend.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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if a woman really feel jealous or that her guy will be taken by other woman , they become more clingy and showing more interest .
but in your case it is the opposite , usually women when not interested just try to find a reason to blame a man for breakup so that they cant not be the "bad one" who was the reason of breakup
if it wasnt that the reason she would find another reason to blame you for the breakup
if you really think that thing will hurt her or made her jealous then try now to call her and go out with her and let see the results
judge women by their actions not by their words
women can say any thing unlike men men their words are their honor