So, I have a plate that I have been seeing for about 4 months. We've banged like 8-10x and don't meet that often, maybe every 2 weeks. She's just someone im dating, NOT LTR material.
Yesterday (friday), I set plans with her for tonight - she mentioned yesterday that she will be working, and i basically told her that if she is unsure, we should reschedule. She insisted that we meet.
Then today, no word from her. Now, im not one to chase a plate and keep confirming whether we are still on or not. So, I text her an hour before we were supp to meet and below is our convo
Me - Are you at work? If so, meet me at XYZ at 8:30 and we'll go from there.
She - I am. Can't commit to a meeting time. Can i take a rain check? Im free anyday this week.
Me - And when were u planning to let me know that you were canceling?
She - I thought i would get out by now & was totally into this presentation im working on. I spaced. Im sorry.
She - pls dont get annoyed. Im swamped & didnt do it on purpose.
I didn't respond to that.
Now, it's not the flaking that im p*ssed about - don't care if you dont wanna hang, and i dont care if you have some other dude on the side that u prefer to meet instead...OR if you're really at work. But i was p*ssed because it's Sat night, ive canceled other plans and more importantly, the "princess" thinks that she can be inconsiderate about someone else's time and just justify to herself that her actions are vindicated because she is "so busy".
do you think i'm acting harshly? and what to do if she calls me later tonight or plays mind games by accusing ME of being immature / not understanding?
Yesterday (friday), I set plans with her for tonight - she mentioned yesterday that she will be working, and i basically told her that if she is unsure, we should reschedule. She insisted that we meet.
Then today, no word from her. Now, im not one to chase a plate and keep confirming whether we are still on or not. So, I text her an hour before we were supp to meet and below is our convo
Me - Are you at work? If so, meet me at XYZ at 8:30 and we'll go from there.
She - I am. Can't commit to a meeting time. Can i take a rain check? Im free anyday this week.
Me - And when were u planning to let me know that you were canceling?
She - I thought i would get out by now & was totally into this presentation im working on. I spaced. Im sorry.
She - pls dont get annoyed. Im swamped & didnt do it on purpose.
I didn't respond to that.
Now, it's not the flaking that im p*ssed about - don't care if you dont wanna hang, and i dont care if you have some other dude on the side that u prefer to meet instead...OR if you're really at work. But i was p*ssed because it's Sat night, ive canceled other plans and more importantly, the "princess" thinks that she can be inconsiderate about someone else's time and just justify to herself that her actions are vindicated because she is "so busy".
do you think i'm acting harshly? and what to do if she calls me later tonight or plays mind games by accusing ME of being immature / not understanding?
