"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Okay I have been no contact with my ex for 2 months. She texts me drunk and asks if I can come get her and she is too drunk to drive. I don't get her but tell her not to drive.

She shows up a my place says she wants to see me. I say fine, she's drunk out of her mind. I ask her if she still speaks to her ex bf, the guy she cheated with she says no. She comes in my apartment and passes out on my bed. Next morning she gets a phone call from her ex billy. He has two kids and a pregnant wife

Last night she calls me at 215 am from an unknown number on speaker with her friends. They are laughing trying to get me to guess who it is I say billy?

I sent this text: "please don't message/call me anymore you'll never be good enough and deep down you know why. Good luck with your home wrecking goals of 2014."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Long story, short. NO.
 
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She toyed with you with full-on disrespect for her amusement. This is why you never, ever break no contact. This is what happens when you puss out and give in.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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4north1side2 said:
Man you should of cummed all in her hair while she was passed out on your bed.
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hahah ...what sort of psychopathic advice is this , it is funny though

I'm surprised you didn't say - record her with a penis on her face and blackmail her
 
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