"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nmartinez12443

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Okay I have been no contact with my ex for 2 months. She texts me drunk and asks if I can come get her and she is too drunk to drive. I don't get her but tell her not to drive.

She shows up a my place says she wants to see me. I say fine, she's drunk out of her mind. I ask her if she still speaks to her ex bf, the guy she cheated with she says no. She comes in my apartment and passes out on my bed. Next morning she gets a phone call from her ex billy. He has two kids and a pregnant wife

Last night she calls me at 215 am from an unknown number on speaker with her friends. They are laughing trying to get me to guess who it is I say billy?

I sent this text: "please don't message/call me anymore you'll never be good enough and deep down you know why. Good luck with your home wrecking goals of 2014."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Long story, short. NO.
 

VladPatton

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She toyed with you with full-on disrespect for her amusement. This is why you never, ever break no contact. This is what happens when you puss out and give in.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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4north1side2 said:
Man you should of cummed all in her hair while she was passed out on your bed.

hahah ...what sort of psychopathic advice is this , it is funny though

I'm surprised you didn't say - record her with a penis on her face and blackmail her
 
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