"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did I end the conversation right?

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A bit of background:
I work as a musician and I'm supposed to play a piece with a female violnist in 10 days.

I got her number, but we chatted for a bit and she seemed to brag about herself: that's she's a fast learner, doesn't have any stage anxiety, won numerous competitions and so on

I kept it light and funny, but right when I was about to exit the room I said:

"Don't worry about the piece then, you'll need about 30mins. to learn it.....if you're really THAT good" in a joking manner.

She seemed a bit surprised by my response and said "Hey....I didn't say that!"

I wasn't trying to put her in her place, just didn't care much at that point. Was it ok on my part?
 

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she will approach you after the piece, fvck her that night
 
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Who cares? Honestly the best thing you can do for yourself is to simply not care about what happens during any interaction. You'll succeed more than you could imagine....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just wanted to hear your opinion. I thought it may have sounded like a neg and don't know if negs are the best way to end a convo.
 
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it was a neg, and now all she can think of is what you said
do not call or text her... see my previous response
 
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The neg was perfectly fine. Never feel bad, back pedal or apologize for anything you say during a casual conversation with people as long as it's not done out of hate or anger.
 
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