"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Did I do the right thing?

RandomGuy22

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My g/f and I are talking on aim tonight, and I say she's being mean (jokingly) and she gives me this like "no not me i'm never mean" speech. So jokingly I say something like "well your thighs aren't good! oooooh that's right I went there" and I think she actualy got mad. I said "do you want a kiss to make you feel better?" she says "no , you're on probation for a week". Right there I was like.. wow what the **** so I said "wow are you joking"
she said "Does it look like i'm joking"

So I said "ok suit yourself, you're missing yout"

she says "Ask any other girl if you said that to them would they get angry"

I said "That would be pointless because it was obviously a joke"

She says "ok whatever I don't even care", and goes to pack (she's moving into her dorm in two days)

While she's away I leave a msg that says "You're only frustrating yourself"

she comes back and says I'm not frustrated, I say "ok good :)"

I try to continue a normal convo. but she seems distant, like she's expecting an apology, which I am NOT giving. how can I handle this? or did I do it correctly
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by RandomGuy22
My g/f and I are talking on aim tonight
Ok theres your first problem.

Neither of you could tell the seriousness of each other, so by using aim you crippled yourself.

Even though i agree with you not wanting to apologize (Its not your freiking problem she's insecure with herself.) yOU need to never use aim again, use your phone, jesus.
 

RandomGuy22

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We were just talking on aim for fun, no one was angry at the time the convo started
 

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Humm youre girlfriends a prostitute.

Shes using sex to get what she wants.

By withhold sex(even if youre not having sex its the same deal), she is trying to control you with it.

Seriously dump this girl and dont waste any more time on her.

You will regret it if you do not.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by Jester
Humm youre girlfriends a prostitute.

Shes using sex to get what she wants.

By withhold sex(even if youre not having sex its the same deal), she is trying to control you with it.

Seriously dump this girl and dont waste any more time on her.

You will regret it if you do not.
I agree
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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