“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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RandomGuy22

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My g/f and I are talking on aim tonight, and I say she's being mean (jokingly) and she gives me this like "no not me i'm never mean" speech. So jokingly I say something like "well your thighs aren't good! oooooh that's right I went there" and I think she actualy got mad. I said "do you want a kiss to make you feel better?" she says "no , you're on probation for a week". Right there I was like.. wow what the **** so I said "wow are you joking"
she said "Does it look like i'm joking"

So I said "ok suit yourself, you're missing yout"

she says "Ask any other girl if you said that to them would they get angry"

I said "That would be pointless because it was obviously a joke"

She says "ok whatever I don't even care", and goes to pack (she's moving into her dorm in two days)

While she's away I leave a msg that says "You're only frustrating yourself"

she comes back and says I'm not frustrated, I say "ok good :)"

I try to continue a normal convo. but she seems distant, like she's expecting an apology, which I am NOT giving. how can I handle this? or did I do it correctly
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by RandomGuy22
My g/f and I are talking on aim tonight
Ok theres your first problem.

Neither of you could tell the seriousness of each other, so by using aim you crippled yourself.

Even though i agree with you not wanting to apologize (Its not your freiking problem she's insecure with herself.) yOU need to never use aim again, use your phone, jesus.
 

RandomGuy22

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We were just talking on aim for fun, no one was angry at the time the convo started
 

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Humm youre girlfriends a prostitute.

Shes using sex to get what she wants.

By withhold sex(even if youre not having sex its the same deal), she is trying to control you with it.

Seriously dump this girl and dont waste any more time on her.

You will regret it if you do not.
 

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Originally posted by Jester
Humm youre girlfriends a prostitute.

Shes using sex to get what she wants.

By withhold sex(even if youre not having sex its the same deal), she is trying to control you with it.

Seriously dump this girl and dont waste any more time on her.

You will regret it if you do not.
I agree
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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