"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Did I do the right thing?

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My g/f and I are talking on aim tonight, and I say she's being mean (jokingly) and she gives me this like "no not me i'm never mean" speech. So jokingly I say something like "well your thighs aren't good! oooooh that's right I went there" and I think she actualy got mad. I said "do you want a kiss to make you feel better?" she says "no , you're on probation for a week". Right there I was like.. wow what the **** so I said "wow are you joking"
she said "Does it look like i'm joking"

So I said "ok suit yourself, you're missing yout"

she says "Ask any other girl if you said that to them would they get angry"

I said "That would be pointless because it was obviously a joke"

She says "ok whatever I don't even care", and goes to pack (she's moving into her dorm in two days)

While she's away I leave a msg that says "You're only frustrating yourself"

she comes back and says I'm not frustrated, I say "ok good :)"

I try to continue a normal convo. but she seems distant, like she's expecting an apology, which I am NOT giving. how can I handle this? or did I do it correctly
 

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Vincent

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Originally posted by RandomGuy22
My g/f and I are talking on aim tonight
Ok theres your first problem.

Neither of you could tell the seriousness of each other, so by using aim you crippled yourself.

Even though i agree with you not wanting to apologize (Its not your freiking problem she's insecure with herself.) yOU need to never use aim again, use your phone, jesus.
 

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We were just talking on aim for fun, no one was angry at the time the convo started
 

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Humm youre girlfriends a prostitute.

Shes using sex to get what she wants.

By withhold sex(even if youre not having sex its the same deal), she is trying to control you with it.

Seriously dump this girl and dont waste any more time on her.

You will regret it if you do not.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by Jester
Humm youre girlfriends a prostitute.

Shes using sex to get what she wants.

By withhold sex(even if youre not having sex its the same deal), she is trying to control you with it.

Seriously dump this girl and dont waste any more time on her.

You will regret it if you do not.
I agree
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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