"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Did I Do the Right Thing Part 2

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I realize this thread is a month old but I just saw a really good video by RSDJeffy that pretty much re-iterated the advice that was given in this thread.

He talks about how you have to be willing to say no and stand up for yourself. You've gotta be firm and aggressive, but at the same time you can't lose your shyt.
Here's the video if anyone is interested:

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nicksaiz65 said:
My friends were about to get up in their face and fight them. But I told them not to. Regarding the insults, I just sat back and laughed. I said it wasn't even worth my time, and if I get up in their face and start yelling, they've broken my frame and I'm showing them that what they say has power over me.
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You did good @nicksaiz65 You've grown much :)
 
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