"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did I Do the Right Thing Part 2

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I realize this thread is a month old but I just saw a really good video by RSDJeffy that pretty much re-iterated the advice that was given in this thread.

He talks about how you have to be willing to say no and stand up for yourself. You've gotta be firm and aggressive, but at the same time you can't lose your shyt.
Here's the video if anyone is interested:

 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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nicksaiz65 said:
My friends were about to get up in their face and fight them. But I told them not to. Regarding the insults, I just sat back and laughed. I said it wasn't even worth my time, and if I get up in their face and start yelling, they've broken my frame and I'm showing them that what they say has power over me.
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You did good @nicksaiz65 You've grown much :)
 
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