"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Did I Do the Right Thing Part 2

nicksaiz65

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I realize this thread is a month old but I just saw a really good video by RSDJeffy that pretty much re-iterated the advice that was given in this thread.

He talks about how you have to be willing to say no and stand up for yourself. You've gotta be firm and aggressive, but at the same time you can't lose your shyt.
Here's the video if anyone is interested:

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My friends were about to get up in their face and fight them. But I told them not to. Regarding the insults, I just sat back and laughed. I said it wasn't even worth my time, and if I get up in their face and start yelling, they've broken my frame and I'm showing them that what they say has power over me.
You did good @nicksaiz65 You've grown much :)
 
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