"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Did I do good?

Tails

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Well, I was on the bus at the bus station, waiting for the bus to leave. I saw my friends cousin (a she of course), who I haven't seen in a while. So I thought, what the hell... I opened the window and waved and asked her what she was doing... this is how the conversation went... at least from what I remember.

ME: Hey!
HER: Oh, hi!
ME: Hey, what ya doin'?
HER: Just going shopping. You?
ME: Home, heh heh. I just finished studying. How have you been?
HER: Good, you?
ME: Great. So what do you do?
HER: I am going to Sydney soon, but at the moment I study ____ (forgot what it was, heh).

(She talked a bit about how she was and what she was doing with herself. To make time go by and not ask for her number so quickly. Mind you, I already know her. So I am not a stranger to her.)

ME: Cool... got a number?
(Bit of a smile on her face...)
HER: Maybe.
ME: Can I have it?
HER: Why?
ME: Heh heh. (I hand her my cell phone) Just dial it in.
(She dials her number in.)
HER: I better go (Smiling and flattered at the same time.)

We were supposed to hook up a long time ago actually... talking like a year or more... but it never happened.

Anyway, she left. Got her number, messaged her few moments after saying: "Thank you :) "

At the same time, she'd get my number.

I'm just trying to get your opinions on how I went. I am actually dissapointed. I think i fuked up on the part: "Can I have your number?"

I remember the real DJ must tell a woman to GIVE the number, not ask. What do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Meh, you did fine. Stop thinking about the DJ way, and start focusing on the responses you get and working on your way. You'll be far better off, trust me.

Just a little afterthought, if you approach enough women in the day, it wont cross your mind whether or not you "did good." Instead, you'll either be focusing on where the next girl's coming from, or a more general improvement to your game.

Keep at it man,
khanboy
 

Tails

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Sounds about right. Thanks pal.
 
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The way you asked for her number was ok - you already knew her and she knew you for a while so this is not a problem. I'll let you know how good you did once you tell us how she responds to your advances.
 

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cool, but why did U send her thx sms?
I don't know, you could say: give me your # and we could go out sometime.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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