"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did I do good?

Tails

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Well, I was on the bus at the bus station, waiting for the bus to leave. I saw my friends cousin (a she of course), who I haven't seen in a while. So I thought, what the hell... I opened the window and waved and asked her what she was doing... this is how the conversation went... at least from what I remember.

ME: Hey!
HER: Oh, hi!
ME: Hey, what ya doin'?
HER: Just going shopping. You?
ME: Home, heh heh. I just finished studying. How have you been?
HER: Good, you?
ME: Great. So what do you do?
HER: I am going to Sydney soon, but at the moment I study ____ (forgot what it was, heh).

(She talked a bit about how she was and what she was doing with herself. To make time go by and not ask for her number so quickly. Mind you, I already know her. So I am not a stranger to her.)

ME: Cool... got a number?
(Bit of a smile on her face...)
HER: Maybe.
ME: Can I have it?
HER: Why?
ME: Heh heh. (I hand her my cell phone) Just dial it in.
(She dials her number in.)
HER: I better go (Smiling and flattered at the same time.)

We were supposed to hook up a long time ago actually... talking like a year or more... but it never happened.

Anyway, she left. Got her number, messaged her few moments after saying: "Thank you :) "

At the same time, she'd get my number.

I'm just trying to get your opinions on how I went. I am actually dissapointed. I think i fuked up on the part: "Can I have your number?"

I remember the real DJ must tell a woman to GIVE the number, not ask. What do you guys think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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khanboy

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Meh, you did fine. Stop thinking about the DJ way, and start focusing on the responses you get and working on your way. You'll be far better off, trust me.

Just a little afterthought, if you approach enough women in the day, it wont cross your mind whether or not you "did good." Instead, you'll either be focusing on where the next girl's coming from, or a more general improvement to your game.

Keep at it man,
khanboy
 

Tails

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Sounds about right. Thanks pal.
 
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The way you asked for her number was ok - you already knew her and she knew you for a while so this is not a problem. I'll let you know how good you did once you tell us how she responds to your advances.
 

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cool, but why did U send her thx sms?
I don't know, you could say: give me your # and we could go out sometime.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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