"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Did I do good?

Tails

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Well, I was on the bus at the bus station, waiting for the bus to leave. I saw my friends cousin (a she of course), who I haven't seen in a while. So I thought, what the hell... I opened the window and waved and asked her what she was doing... this is how the conversation went... at least from what I remember.

ME: Hey!
HER: Oh, hi!
ME: Hey, what ya doin'?
HER: Just going shopping. You?
ME: Home, heh heh. I just finished studying. How have you been?
HER: Good, you?
ME: Great. So what do you do?
HER: I am going to Sydney soon, but at the moment I study ____ (forgot what it was, heh).

(She talked a bit about how she was and what she was doing with herself. To make time go by and not ask for her number so quickly. Mind you, I already know her. So I am not a stranger to her.)

ME: Cool... got a number?
(Bit of a smile on her face...)
HER: Maybe.
ME: Can I have it?
HER: Why?
ME: Heh heh. (I hand her my cell phone) Just dial it in.
(She dials her number in.)
HER: I better go (Smiling and flattered at the same time.)

We were supposed to hook up a long time ago actually... talking like a year or more... but it never happened.

Anyway, she left. Got her number, messaged her few moments after saying: "Thank you :) "

At the same time, she'd get my number.

I'm just trying to get your opinions on how I went. I am actually dissapointed. I think i fuked up on the part: "Can I have your number?"

I remember the real DJ must tell a woman to GIVE the number, not ask. What do you guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Meh, you did fine. Stop thinking about the DJ way, and start focusing on the responses you get and working on your way. You'll be far better off, trust me.

Just a little afterthought, if you approach enough women in the day, it wont cross your mind whether or not you "did good." Instead, you'll either be focusing on where the next girl's coming from, or a more general improvement to your game.

Keep at it man,
khanboy
 

Tails

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Sounds about right. Thanks pal.
 
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The way you asked for her number was ok - you already knew her and she knew you for a while so this is not a problem. I'll let you know how good you did once you tell us how she responds to your advances.
 

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cool, but why did U send her thx sms?
I don't know, you could say: give me your # and we could go out sometime.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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