“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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did i come on too strong?

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ok i saw this chick on myspace does dance where i do karate.....there is a hip hop dancing class with ALL kinds of hot chicks, but the problem is after class they always seem to be in a rush....so i found one on myspace (i think she's hip hop) and it was also her b-day this weekend so in my reply i said "what are we gonna do"? well she answered on mon night, the night time when i get home from karate
she said she may go clubbin with her friends

ok things go ok, since there is a ballet class she jokingly asks if im in that, and i say "hell nah im too clumsy....and say no im in the hula class, ur welcome to stop by and see me shake my booty j/k" and i tell her she may know who i am but still don't admit im in the karate arate class after hip hop mondays.....and after i sent that i sent another message saying "hey wats ur email so i can add u to my buddy list"...

just out of curiousity and future reference, is that coming on too strong? since there are psycho's online i think that may have been after only the 2nd email...... next time i do this, (its just for practice, but ill admit she was like a hb 7 picture wise, in real life things are different) do u think i should wait b4 asking for email/number? i have moved on since she hasn't replied since tuesday but im just wondering...

i also tried to approach the bus driver i had (about hb 6, but i haven't seen her body since she's sitting in the chair, that and she seemed busy driving the bus) so i made only small talk.......

thanks for ur advice homies
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OK I don't think you were being too forward. I think you were funny with hula bit but I don't think it's generally a good idea to make fun of yourself. You should've just said you were in the Karate class and you could've busted on her back when she teased you about being in ballet class.

Also, I read your other post and it also contained conversation where the HB mentioned she was going clubbing. Maybe you could take that and run with it, i.e., "Oh you like to go clubbing, where you going..I might want to check it out..maybe I'll run into you there, blah blah blah..


Anyway girls online tend to be flaky, so it's probably not anything you did.
 

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Absolutely amazing. We've gone from people asking if they came on too strong in person to people asking if they came on too strong over the internet.

What's next?!
 
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lol thats the thing, im not a clubber so it wouldn't work out...also the reason im asking if i came on too strong is in case i do actually find a chick im intereted in on the internet s*hit wont' backfire...is it bad im asking this? oh well i needed advice
 

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good luck with the bus driver....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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